Do's & Don'ts

someone asked me a hypothetically speaking question ....

"If i was your man ... what are my does and donts?"



i was caught soo off guard i had no answer to the question ...i just froze up .. why .. i have no idea

that was such a fricking awesome question .... i didnt wana say the wrong thing so i just said nothing.



being that i over analyze eveything .. i have been thinking bout this question all night and all day



and i think i came up with a few answers



dont lie to me ... no matter how much you think itl hurt me or my feelings

dont talk down to me

DO NOT EVER by me flowers ... that will piss me the **** offf to the 10TH POWER seriously

get me pretty cupcakes REDVELT (from make-my-cake) instead OR vanilla cupcakes with confetti from Crumb or the VALENTINES DAY EPECIAL 1 ... no matter what diet im on..lol but i am serious.

dont embarress me ...

dont cheat on me .. if there is something is lacking in our realtionship .. or something that i need to improve with or on .. please be sure to tell me 1st ..

dont watch me struggle or leave me hanging when the goin gets tough.



do love me unconditionally

do be supportive

let me knowif i am doing something wrong n give suggestions as to how i can t hings better or differently... etc

be cool

do get me presents lol if u like tht is lol

be as cool with me as u are with your homies ... seriously...

treat me like the lady that i am ..

give a hug wen u see me ... kiss my lips n squeeze my........ lololol i am soo silly



i am not really sure if this answers the question that i was asked

but i guess this is wat ill say later on ...lol



this relationship or understandingship .. stuff is all new to me ... my mentality has changed over the last 2 years of being single ...

i just want to be ina realtionship where we are soo cool... its unbelivable

i work soo hard @ my reg job cutomers bitching all day

within my company i be amongst bitching models ... yelling arguing etc ..i dont want neof that in my realtionship ... ijust wana TALK to my MR.. if in fact he is My Mr. talk hug kiss the whole nine yards let discuss eachothers day and see how we can make eachother feel better n how tomake next day a better day if it didnt go as well as we intended for it.

to me realations should enhance eachothers life each person should compliment the other. no one or nothing should take away or add stress to anything that has to do with the relationship. or 1s totall being.
everything bout a realtionship is or should be 50 50 ... nevr 80 20...
it doesnt matter how much 1 person makes as far salary ... if 1 makes more than the other .. then both needs to come to some kind of mutual understanding that compliments eachother as far expenses are concerned.

this is my opinon .. i am not really no1s expert this is just how I feel .. if i was in a realtionship
but i am not .. its just me myself and i ... lol

someday some1 will feel the exact same or very similar
thnxx fo reeadingmy blog yet again
laters ........... :-)